Ecclesiastes 4:13-16
Better is a poor but wise youth than an old but foolish king who will no longer take advice. One can indeed come out of prison to reign, even though born poor in the kingdom. I saw all the living who, moving about under the sun, follow that youth who replaced the king; there was no end to all those people whom he led. Yet those who come later will not rejoice in him. Surely this also is vanity and a chasing after wind. Ecclesiastes 4:13-16 (NRSVU)
Solomon, one of Israel’s wisest kings, or perhaps someone whose teachings were similar to the wisdom of Solomon, wrote Ecclesiastes. These verses are similar to how Solomon’s story began. He was chosen by God and by David to be king, rather than actively seeking the throne himself. Solomon is portrayed as a young, humble ruler who asked God for wisdom and guidance.
A friend of mine’s high school son played quarterback for his school last fall. He’s been playing football for several years; has a strong arm and is a good kicker. Their team had a winning season. The baseball coach this spring asked Johnny if he would play on the baseball team. Johnny was reluctant. He had never played baseball, wasn’t familiar with the game and the football season had been physically rough. At the coach’s urging, he eventually gave in.
It's hard to know sometimes why we’ve been chosen. Is it something we’re good at or somewhere there is a need? Could it be God’s calling? How do we know? What should we do?
It hasn’t been a great season for the baseball team Johnny’s on. They lost all but two of 22 games. When Johnny has played, he’s usually been in right field. He’s had two hits the whole cold, windy season. How does Johnny feel about playing baseball? He loves it! Why? The coach and the team. The coach who is constantly clapping and encouraging the players. Who high fives every player as they come off the field (I’ve noticed all the players follow his lead and do the same thing). Who doesn’t hesitate to call a time out for teaching. And sees potential in every player. Johnny doesn’t love baseball because he is good at it. He loves it because he feels accepted and valued.
Kind of like how God feels about us? There’s more good news!
First – God is always there for us. When we make a wrong choice, go in the wrong direction, fail to see an opportunity – God doesn’t give up. God loves us and will always be with us and for us.
Second – We are part of a church community. We care about each other. The more involved we are, the more we feel that community. I may have suggested these before . . . have a cup of coffee after worship and greet a few people, join a small group, serve meals at Matt Talbot or the Gathering Place, come to a Bible study, offer to teach Sunday School with someone who needs a partner, join the choir, serve on an usher team . . . you are accepted and valued.
Questions for Reflection:
- Have you ever been chosen? How did that feel?
- Have you ever chosen someone? How did you help them be successful?
- Where do you feel most comfortable at Southwood? Have you talked to someone new lately?
Prayer:
Always present Lord, May every person who comes to Southwood or who is served by people from Southwood feel accepted and valued. May we support each other as we reach out into our community with God’s love and grace. Amen.


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