Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (NIV)
During this pandemic time, we have all been told to be socially distanced, to not have large gatherings, and to stay at home. Way back in March, 2020, this really didn’t sound too bad to me. I’m an introvert, so I enjoy my alone time. I figured this was just a chance to curl up with a few good books and a cup of coffee or a beer (depending on the time of day :)).
It really wasn’t bad for the first few weeks. As the time kept getting extended, though, I realized that being at home ALL THE TIME wasn’t that great. I was fortunate to have Don! But, I also missed the social interaction, and the hugs. Don and I also became grandparents in March, and it was really difficult not being able to see our granddaughter.
In April, we finally had some nice days and were able to do outdoor gatherings. We got to see family and friends. Even though we didn’t do hugs, it was such a relief to see other people. I remember my mom saying, “It’s soooooo good to see you.”
God didn’t create us to be alone. We all need the support of others. When we are going through tough times, we know that God is there for us. But it also helps to have the support of friends and family.
The power of people working together and supporting others can be seen in the church. Do you remember the floods in Nebraska in March, 2019? It was a helpless feeling watching the news coverage and feeling like I wanted to help, but didn’t know what to do. But Southwood showed the power of working together! We dedicated our Easter offering to flood relief and were able to donate $50,000 to flood relief efforts. We also had a youth mission trip that summer dedicated to flood relief, with the adults joining them one day to help do flood cleanup. This is something that one person wouldn’t have been able to do alone. But working together, they were able to accomplish much!
Thank goodness the COVID vaccine is getting distributed. In the meantime, thank goodness for Zoom and social media and whatever ways we can find to stay connected. 2 are better than 1, and 3 is even better!
Questions for Reflection
- Is there someone you know who has been isolated during the pandemic? How can you support them?
- Are you facing something that seems overwhelming? Reach out to get help – if you don’t know where to start, maybe the church can point you in the right direction.
Prayer
Loving God, You didn’t create us to have us be alone. Comfort us during these times, and help us find ways to support each other. Amen.
About the Author:
Lori Changstrom -Lori is the Administration/Finance Director at Southwood. She and Don have been married for over 30 years and have two grown children (Dave and Becca) with families of their own. Lori and Don love to travel, especially if it involves beer and/or baseball!
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