Saturday, January 4, 2025

04Jan

1 Timothy 4:15-16

Put these things into practice, devote yourself to them, so that all may see your progress. Pay close attention to yourself and to your teaching; continue in these things, for in doing this you will save both yourself and your hearers. 1 Timothy 4:15-16 (NRSVUE)

These verses from 1 Timothy relay an encouraging message from the apostle Paul, speaking to a young pastor named Timothy. Paul is mentoring Timothy as he progresses through the early part of his ministry. As I read this message, it’s as if Paul is speaking to me as well. I immediately apply these words to three different categories in my own life. My first thoughts apply to my role as a father and husband and how my words and actions imprint on my wife and kids. I’d like to think that I do a decent job in both roles, but I absolutely recognize I’m far from perfect. Our actions and reactions matter, and the latter is my biggest challenge, as I tend to fall short with all too often loud and quick reactions. I have made a conscientious effort to improve over time and verse 15 is a challenge to me. 15 “Put these things into practice, devote yourself to them, so that all may see your progress.” Continual growth as a father and spouse should always be a top priority for any of us in these roles.

I also think of my role as a teacher and coach when reading Paul’s words. It is an awesome responsibility to be in a position to mentor young people and fellow staff members as they grow in the classroom, on the football field, and in their ability to work with others. I thrive on developing relationships and communicating with everyone I interact with. My relationship is different with each student, player and coworker, because I believe that each individual is at a different point in their growth and leads with their own individual strengths. In my role, I try to offer an opportunity for each person to successfully apply their strengths in order for them to feel successful. I try to model expectations with my own consistent actions and reinforce with my words to help everyone grow in some way, but I tend to use more words than the average person, so I have a greater chance to making an error with what comes out of my mouth! This is where verse 16 is my reminder. 16 “ Pay close attention to yourself and to your teaching; continue in these things, for in doing this you will save both yourself and your hearers.“ 

My last role is the most important and that is as a child of God. I write in my bio that I prioritize God, family, education and football, but I screw that up all the time. I can be so self-centered in my thoughts and actions, wanting what is most advantageous for me. In the end, I don’t want that mindset to impact my role as a husband, father, teacher, mentor or coach. I strive to be accountable to God’s teachings, but in order to do that, I have to also be accountable to myself. I’m simply guessing that I’m not the only one who may feel that challenge at times. As we begin the new calendar year, let Paul’s words resonate with each of us so that we remain focused on what is most important, which are the teachings of Christ Jesus. Amen.

Questions for Reflection:

  • Do you ever find it challenging to stay consistent?
  • Do you take the time to focus on the teaching of Jesus to feel centered in your day to day life?

Prayer:

Dear Lord,
Our day-to-day lives are filled with challenges, our relationships vary, and sometimes we stray from your teachings. Remind us to stay consistent, be kind to one another, and know that your teachings and your grace will always lead us through. Amen.

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Bob Floth - Bob is an elementary teacher and football coach, he also sings in the Southwood Men’s Chorus. Bob and his wife Stephanie are the proud parents of three boys, Bradyn, Camdyn and Landyn. Bob tries to prioritize life in four sequential steps: God, family, education, and football—and is successful part of the time.

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